In this lyrical and poignant book, Finding Immortality: The Making of One American Family, award-winning writer Herbert Hadad records the joys and sorrows of parenthood and, in so doing, opens a wide window into family life that is intimate and unmistakably American. The masterful prose of Finding Immortality conveys the true tale of one family confronting and triumphing over real issues, from infidelity and drink to mortality and racism. These universal themes provide a treasury of lessons for parents and all other admirers of fine writing to learn and enjoy. Here is what some readers have had to say about Finding Immortality:

“These gritty and flavorful
essays address the emotional costs of virtue, faith, and true love.”
—Lawrence Wright, winner
of the Pulitzer Prize in nonfiction for The Looming Tower and
staff writer for The New Yorker
“An elegant writer and story
teller, Hadad spins tales as compelling as O’Henry’s. These are
vivid, often roguish, portraits of the angst and pleasures of contemporary
existence.”
—Selwyn Raab, author and
retired New York Times reporter
“Kid boxer and life-long
journalist Herb Hadad has been around. He’s seen a lot. Part Jew,
part Arab, and all American, he loves his children, his wife, and his
world. These stories will clear the mind and warm the heart.”
—Benjamin H. Cheever, novelist
and journalist
“As strong as the bonds are
among Herbert Hadad’s family members in these pellucid domestic narratives,
he makes clear that as a father he has as many faults as the next guy.
These are not stories about suburban Care Bears. Yet the episodes flow
so smoothly that you imagine it must be easy to do this kind of writing.
It isn’t.”
—Stephen S. Pickering, retired
New York Times staff editor
“Herb Hadad distills with
a great eye and a great ear what we care about and presents it brilliantly,
with wit and understanding.”
—Dr. Myles Striar, professor
of education emeritus, Boston University, writer, and translator
“Hadad doesn’t blink, he
doesn’t flinch. He looks straight at his subjects, sometimes in sorrow
but mostly in joy, and tells the stories that dwell in most of us.
Finding Immortality is a wonderful read.”
—the late
Dennis Duggan, columnist, Newsday
“His essays are personal
and quirky, with an angle, a larger theme, that makes them stick and
gives them an edge. The big test: as a reader it is hard not to care
about Herbert Hadad and his family. I think of E.B. White here, how
he could make his geese, his dachshund Fred, his neighbor with the plow,
himself with doldrums, all off-center and yet universal, something we
understood. He made his little world feel connected to ours, us to him.
That’s the gift. I think Herbert does that.”
—Geraldine Van Dusen, editor
and freelance journalist
Click here to read some excerpts from the book and see a Q&A from the author.
-Hadad makes his cable television debut. View the program On Writing, where Hadad is interviewed by novelist Ben Cheever.